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[clodia_risa]

I'm a masochist.

I just read all of my ex's Lj and his fiance's LJ. And most of one of my friends from high school's LJ. Fortunately, non of them update often.

That is the worst thing to ever do, and none of you should ever do it.

The one entry that almost upset me was the girl talking about how much his hometown friends liked her. I haven't talked to most of them in years. It makes me nostalgic and angry.

I guess I should get in touch with the one person from my hometown that is in town. We even work in the same building. He seemed open to going out to dinner sometime with my boy and his wife. I should like to get to know who he has become.


NOTE TO SELF: Cheer up, emo kid.

Comments

[(Anonymous)]

torturing yourself over matters of the past is ridiculous and unnecessary. your ex-boyfriend has moved on and you should have too, by now. whatever areas in which she excelled that you failed in are redundant -- the past is the past and you would do best for them and yourself to forget it.

[clodia-risa.livejournal.com]

Thank you, anon. I can't tell if you're being kind or rude.

I would explain further the emotions behind this post, and the circumstances behind it, as you seem to have missed something, but I don't feel it necessary to do so to either someone I do not know, or someone who doesn't feel comfortable telling me this to my face.

If you do know me, call me, and talk to me. Although, I'm somewhat doubting that from your seeming lack of knowledge of the circumstances.

[(Anonymous)]

I'm not being kind or rude -- in situations such as this there is no kindness nor rudeness. Simply the truth.

only is it ever wise to involve yourself in a situation where you know what is going on, and since i DO know the circumstances my advice still remains.

anonymity is simply my way of drawing attention away from the advisor and emphasizing the advice.

[clodia-risa.livejournal.com]

Honestly, all you are doing is making me very uncomfortable.

And, even if you are one of my good friends that I have talked to about this, you still can't know all of the circumstances. Even if you are my ex, you can't possibly know everything.

I don't want to discuss this here. If you are one of my friends, call me. If you feel you know the situation so well, you must know a way to get in touch with me. Feel free.